I've met a friendly person in ICQ a couple of weeks ago. Since then, I've message with her every day at work. I personally think that it's really nice to have new friend, especially one you meet in the Internet. For instance, if both parties respect each other, you can basically tell the other anything you want.
Another thing, which is quite different from spouse or friends in real life, is that you do not have demand on the other party. The only thing you expect from your ICQ friend is him or her listening to you, and vice versa. You don't find any "burden" from this new friend. But I guess I'm just lucky to meet a nice person. In the past, I've got some chatting with me, which turns out to be boring or silly.
It reminds me of a date through internet chat when I was back in the university. It was quite a silly one. At least the outcome was. I guess once you have expectation or demand from the others, it puts a test to the relationship. Mine didn't work out that time. Somehow I feel lucky about that. Anyway, Life is full of tests, which make it interesting.
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